Dear Daughter….
“Queens are not
intimidated by the presumption that they are going to run a man off by asking
too many questions.”
In fact…
You actually don’t have a man if HE can’t answer questions!
“…Do not be
unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with
lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?..”
| 2 Corinthians 6: 14 |
A Queen understands that she cannot rightfully discern if a 'potential'
is an equal or unequal yoke without asking questions!
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Dear Daughter….
"...Queens do
not have a Masters degree in 'pettiness'..."
They know how to overlook trivial issues,...they also know how to raise
up important ones.
They understand that their words are 24 carat 'gold' and VALUABLE to the
man who sees their value.
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Dear Daughter….
"...Queens ask
Questions."
Queens do not subscribe to the societal perception or world view that
has been set up to protect...
A person 'with no answers'
- that says:
"A good woman
should sit, nod their head & be silent'.
Queens use questions to verify, to analyze, to vert & to make
informed conclusions.
Queens do not permit anyone to be accepted without being qualified!
The word says:
"....And when
the Queen of Sheba heard of the fame of Solomon concerning the name of the
LORD, she came to prove him with hard questions..."
| 1 Kings 10:1 |
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Dear Daughter….
"...A Queen
allows the man to dictate the tempo & drive the momentum of the
relationship..."
If he ain't feeling it, neither should you be!
A Queen never caters to a man that is not dedicated to her.
Do you know how hard it is to make a man love you?
And can you keep pursuing him the way you are pursuing him?
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Dear Daughter….
"...Queens do
not finance a Man."
A Queen is only committed to financing her KING - who she knows for a
fact is 'temporarily' down, and on his was back on his feet again. Period!
Queens don't finance an 'unproven man'!
"...Even while
we were with you, we gave you this command: "Those unwilling to work will
not get to eat..."
| 2 Thessalonians 3:10 |
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Dear Daughter….
"....Any day,
Queens will favor a man who is producing at 'small scale' than a man with
'potential'..."
'Production' (even on a small scale) is a sign of 'potential' already in
motion!
A Queen can work with that!
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Dear Daughter….
"....Potential
with no corresponding character is as good as no potential..."
Never buy into 'potential' that lacks 'character'. He will need that
character to 'manifest' that potential & the same character to 'maximize'
that potential.
No character, no future!
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Dear Daughter….
"...Trust is
not a GIFT given. It is an HONOR earned..."
A gullible Queen goes around giving trust as a gift - without verifying,
and wonders when she gets burnt.
"...Beloved,
do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from
God.."
| 1 John 4:1 |
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Dear Daughter….
"...You were a
victim when he disrespected you. You became a volunteer when you stayed..."
A Kingdom Queen eliminates any man who does not hold her in high esteem.
If you accepting what that pond has to offer, you are going to keep getting
what that pond is delivering. A queen does not continually tolerate bad
treatment. She understands that a man will show the ‘best of himself’ while he
pursues her and if he has not shown the best of himself, and shows no sign to ‘bend’,
he is not really interested.
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Dear Daughter….
"...A Queen
adjusts her tolerance for abusive treatment..."
A Queen might have been raised by abusive parents, or might have lived
in an abusive culture. She could have even been in a relationship with an
abusive Ex. But once she has made a decision to ‘be better’, she adjusts her
tolerance for abuse.
A queen will strictly lay out boundaries on any advances of ‘abuse’
coming from any person who is pursuing her and will not permit consistent,
blatant and transparent disrespect. She will not make excuses for any man who
ill-treats her.
She knows what she is worth and will not give herself out at a discount.
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Thanks for reading!
If any of these 10 nuggets resonated with you and you would like to
share them with a friend, go ahead and do so. Remember to come back next week Friday
where I will have compiled another 10 ‘Dear Daughter Posts’ for the week, from
the wealth of life changing reading material I personally indulge in.
I’m praying for you!
May you become a True Kingdom Queen
Love
Melody
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