Affirmations | for the Divorced

Monday, April 08, 2019

Today I am deeply grateful for a new lease of life. I have been given an unplanned but welcome opportunity to start afresh. I welcome the exciting adventures that lie ahead of me. I am expectant, eager and hopeful. Any fear in me is not of God & so I release it – I let it go.

Everything is going to be okay! The Lord is writing a new story with the resides of my life , here & now! This is not the end. My heart is open to new possibilities. Better is ahead of me if I stay trusting in God’s hand at work in my life.

I am healing and discovering myself all over again. My pep-talk towards myself is filled with words of kindness and love. All things are working together for my good. God knows the thoughts and plans he has for me, and they are thoughts of good and not of evil. I have a great life ahead of me and I am deeply grateful for a new start!

When the Lord saw that Leah was unloved, he opened her womb and caused her to be fruitful. I am entering my new season of unprecedented and unmatched fruitfulness. I am increasing in wisdom, knowledge, love, laughter and joy! I am becoming profitable in all my ways. The Lord is my present help in times of need and those that are for me are much more than those that are against me. All things are working together for my good.

My name shall not be Marah, a water too bitter to drink. I am open to new opportunities to be loved, as God works his healing in me. God has promised to heal the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds – and gladly accept it. This is my turn to go under the skilful knife of the Great Physician. I refuse to be hardened by the issues of life. I will keep my heart soft enough to enjoy the beauty of true love when it meets with me.

I release every pain connected to my experience. Regardless of what and how it happened, I did not deserve it. It was never God’s intent to let me go through this pain, therefore I open up my heart to his healing touch. He will wash me with his living waters and encourage me by his Spirit & ancient words.

The Lord is for me, he makes me lie down in green pastures. He leads me besides the still waters. I am rested and assured in him. All things concerning all facets of my life are coming together. God is healing my emotions. God is healing my mind. God is shifting me spiritually. There is supernatural healing in all fractured places of my life. Divine light enters through every crack in my heart and is making all things new.  I am blessed even in my season of mourning for the Lord says I n Mathew 5:4, I shall be comforted.

The Lord has prepared me for this season. He knows all things and knew I would be here. I am equipped. I welcome new changes. I cooperate with the discomfort they might bring because I know that I will grow in the process. There is no burden too heavy for me to carry. The Lord is my helper! He has tried and tested me and he knows what I can bear. I am ready to move to my future with God.
As Ruth and Naomi were committed to starting over, in a new land -without their husbands present, the Lord Is extending to me the same grace. I accept it and I am deeply grateful. I am still alive, what a blessing, what a privilege. I am still here for a reason. I acknowledge that I gave my best.

I release any feelings of self-condemnation. I allow God’s love to make me anew! Instead of anxiety, I chose EXPECTATION. I am expectant to see the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living! I am expectant to see the amazing twists God will make in my story. Like Joseph in the Pit, I know I saw a Palace in my future. I am not here to stay. I am ready for what God has in store for me.
I forgive and I release any feelings of pain to God. He says Come to me all of you who are heavy laden and I will give you rest for your soul. I have chosen the way of forgiveness - more for myself than for the other person.

The punishment that brought this peace I have the privilege of experiencing was placed on Jesus Christ on the cross, and by his wounds, I am healed. The Lord paid a great price for my healing and I am deeply grateful. God has taken my pain and bore my suffering (Isaiah 53:4). God is expanding my heart and my ability to understand the other party. I release my need to know it all, my complete and ultimate closure is found In Jesus. My healing is not dependant on someone’s desire to help me understand what happened. I will heal fully, regardless. For the Lord’s miraculous ways are at work in me.

I bless those who have hurt me and speak well of those who have ill-treated me.  I repay evil with good. Revenge is for the weak, but I am strong in the Lord and in the power of his might. God is birthing out new virtues in me. I have been prepared and processed by reason of this season. My future is definitely better than my past. My pain will have purpose.

I am deeply grateful to God for my life. I am not a failure, nor is my existence a mistake. I am strong and full of courage for my future needs it. The Lord hems me in from behind and before and his hand of blessing is upon me. My rejection was direction. God is perfecting all that concern me. I behold and I see he is doing a new thing. A new season has come to me and I gladly accept it. There is life after this divorce and I am preparing to be a better person for what lies ahead for me.

He will wipe away every tear from my eyes and silence the cries of my heart. God is my portion forever. The strength of my heart and a good good Father (Psalm 73:26). I am forgiving and kind to myself from today onward. The Lords love is unfailing and nothing can separate me from its raging force. The Lord is settling every injustice done to me and he is vindicating me even in conversations and meetings I know not of. My Family is will survive the trauma of this season. Not even this weapon fashioned against us shall prosper.

My children will be fathered by the Lord. Any dispute shall be calmed and advocated for, In peace and understanding.

I am still valuable in God’s kingdom. Divorce makes me no less than any other heir to God’s kingdom and child of God. I remind myself daily that I did the best I could, with what I knew. I will not let this season define me nor confine me. No one has a right to define their identity based on the lowest point of their life. I am made and remade year after year. I am a constant work in progress. I am not who I used to be – even a month ago, I keep changing for the better.

I am wiser, I am stronger, I am learning and evolving.  I can be any person I desire to be. God is my well skilled POTTER, creating an unmatched work of my life. I will be okay, and so will all that concerns me. God is making a way for me! AMEN.

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