I have the relationship I have always desired.
I am open to love and I am in the perfect relationship for me. In God I am fulfilled, lacking nothing and unconditionally accepted. I know how to love for God shows his expression through me. I do not have the ability to generate love, for according to 1 John 4:7, love comes from God.I permit God to use me as a vessel of love in my marriage.

I do not love because they (_________name) are deserving, but according to 1 John 4:19. I love them because God first led by good example and loved me at my weakest.

I have been crucified in Christ and no longer live therefore Christ can fully use me to minister love to my soon to be husband. As God loved me with an unfailing love (Jeremiah 31:3), I can love with the same through Christ who strengthens me.

According to John 15:13, greater love has no one than this to lay down one’s life for a friend. I declare that my heart is laid down for my soon to be partner and no one else. My loyalty is fully pledged just on him and as the church joyfully places itself under Christ’s submission and covering, I place my life under my partner.

I declare that I am abounding in love and faithfulness. I declare that I carry a love that endures as Christ's does. I declare that I carry a sacrificial love (Romans 5:8). As Christ died for us to have life I will sacrificially die daily to ‘I’, to give life to ‘Us’. I have supernatural, Holy Spirit breathed ability to with stand the tests of marriage.

My relationship and engagement is preserved. My joy will not be cut short. According to Zephaniah 3:17, in his love, the Lord stops his rebuke - but rejoices over me with singing. I declare that my mouth shall be foreign to rebuke and criticism in marriage. I shall greatly encourage my husband and be a wife of consolation.

With great comfort shall I cheer him on when the winds of life toss him to and fro. I am worthy of love and so is my partner. I declare that we are a formidable team ready to portray Christ with our marriage. I declare that our goals are aligned. We dream together and build in unity. I declare that our values are in sync, we are constantly learning each other so we are stronger. I am favoured in his family and by all that know him.

There is oneness in our beliefs. We are a family called to serve the Lord with us in our seed. I release every emotional baggage from my past. The Lord is making all things new. I am thankful to have finally found someone special. Money is one of the biggest conflicts in marriage therefore the Lord has blessed us with the power to prosper. We shall lack no good thing.

Our barns shall forever be full with produce. Opportunities come to us easily and flow in our direction. I declare that we are compatible. As Eve was Adams flesh of his flesh and bone of his bone, so am I to him. I declare understanding, harmony, peace, concurrence, order, oneness.

Any demonically induced fights will find us ready to defend our marriage with humility, slowness of speech, quick listening, kindness, forgiveness, respect, love and the powerful weapon of prayer. We are always on our knees when it is difficult to love each other as husband and wife we will always have our friendship to fall back on. In all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us.

For I am convicted that neither death nor life, neither angels nor Demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers. Neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus. And with our eyes on him - his love through us - we will conquer all! AMEN!

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1. What is my most recent testimony?
2. What lessons did I learn in my Christian journey this month?
3. What is currently going right in my Christian walk?
4. What is going wrong in my Christian walk?
5. When last did I experience joy in my salvation walk?
6. What are my priorities in my spiritual walk right now?
7. What habits do I need to get rid of in my walk?
8. Some habits I could fit into my walk to make it better.
9. If my life could be used to preach one message, what would it be?
10. Given I had all the time in the world, what would I do for God now?
11. What are my God given gifts and talents?
12. What value do I bring to the Kingdom?
13. How does a fulfilling morning spent with God look like to me?
14. How does a fulfilling evening spent seeking God look like to me?
15. What excuses have I been making about prayer?
16. What Christian conference would I like to attend this year?
17. What was the last word God gave me for my life?
18. Last time I felt the presence of God in my life.
19. An area I am working on becoming better at.
20. A spiritual fruit I have grown-in.
21. If Jesus stood in front of me today, what 5 questions would I ask him?
22. What is something I have always wanted to do for God but have been afraid to?
23. What areas in my life have caused me pain? Have I healed?
24. Things I can do to take better care of myself in my Christian walk.
25. Which character in the bible is my greatest inspiration?
26. Which character in the bible do I relate the most to?
27. In hindsight, if I could give myself advice the day I stood on the altar to receive Christ as Lord, what would I tell myself?
28. My purpose can be best described with this one sentence.
29. Who else is benefiting from my existence on this earth, apart from my job, family?
30. What legacy would I like to live for the kingdom?

• Make a commitment  to love and trust yourself more than anyone else (apart from God of course). I promise that you will never regret this! 
• Always take time to get to know yourself better. Pay attention to the things that make you happy or sad and ask yourself why you feel that way. Always make sure you keep check of your heart.
• In as much as it always feels safe to seek counsel from friends and family learn to trust your intuition, it will never lead you into the gutter. That's your gift from the Holy Spirit utilise it!!

• There is only one you in this entire universe and that's your super power. It would be such a tragedy if you don't appreciate yourself enough cause there will never be another you again. 

• It's okay to be there for others but always make sure you don't give from an empty cup. Take time to refill your own cup and take care of yourself unapologetically. Take time out from the noise of the world and spend some quality bonding time with yourself, be it over coffee, a solo movie date. Whatever personal bonding looks like for you, make sure you do this from time to time.

• You are beautiful inside out, don't let your past experiences, your family back ground or your current situation tell you otherwise. You have absolutely no reason not to put yourself first. God loved you and chose you for a purpose. You can only thrive if you learn the art of choosing and putting yourself first.